I've known my partner since we were kids. We're celebrating our anniversary soon. We've had our fair share of obstacles but I love them more than I've ever loved any partners in the past. I'm just not sure that's true for them. They posted on Reddit about a year ago when we were having problems and explained some very hurtful things about our relationship. (Sometimes I annoy them, they feel like we have the same old conversations, etc) I've seen this post but never brought it up bc we were in what I felt to be the best place we had ever been in. However, we were with a friend the other night and they're going on and on about how much I mean to them and they started tearing up. Tonight I find something else they've written that gives off the impression they're still in love with their ex and I'm back in the same position I was before. This person is my world. We're getting a house together. I'm close with their family. I don't know what to do.